i am still alive..

yeah... of course i am... else, who is blogging here? muahahahahaha

it has been a longgggg longgggg time since i last blog. why?????

two main reasons:
- lazinesssss
- busy-nessssss

there is so much i need to do.... i must start managing my time well between the kids and my own private life..... as in my own social life i mean......

i have not been meeting my good frens for dunno how long ago...... except for colleagues, i have not been lepak-ing with my good frens.... and also except for some small gatherings with the "gang & kids", basically my life is just around the WORK and the KIDS....

i have not been blogging much for my own blog(this blog) and my kids blog(daniel & belle)... so, u can imagine how many things i hv not uploaded on their milestones and their latest pic.....

i have not been managing the hundreds of photos of daniel and belle... all still stored in my house CPU or even the digital cam......

hey! i must do something! yes! i must!

when?

soon i hope.....
:)

things that you can find in a resume

hobby: eating, sleeping, shopping

will you call him/ her for an interview? why not?

on a weekend....
it is not always i get to snap a morning pic of hubby with the two kids... every weekday morning, daniel will be sent to por por house and comes home onli at late evening..... this is a moment to treasure

me + my 2 babies

with my cool looking sweetheart girl

and with my cheeky darling boy

busy + lazy

been a while since i last updated my blog and my kids' blogs.... reason: this mummy has been so lazy on weekdays and too busy on weekends.... yeah... time are spent so much on the kids when i am at home... imagine if i do not have my mum's or my MIL's help.... i think i will drop dead tired everyday! and did i say i spent so much time on facebook as well? :)

since i am staying at home this few days to clear my annual leave that i hv some time to update the blogs... and of course with some hint fom my good fren SL that i have not been updating the blogs lately, i have no choice but to move my butt and blog lor.... hehehe

anyway, it will be x'mas soon... looking forward to visit my grandma in s'pore.... of course i am not traveling alone... it will be the whole gang... well, almost the whole gang minus my FIL..... meaning there will be me with hubby, daniel, annabelle, my parents, MIL, sis & KJ, bro & kar lai....

what happens when i put both my kids near each other? answer: STRESS (at least that is what daniel thinks)
daniel @ 17+ mths old & annabelle @ 2+ months old

labor story 2

hehehe... the title of this post some sort of like a movie title hor
e.g. toy story, toy story 2 etc....

compare to daniel's labor story, this will be a shorter one coz this time round, ananbelle's delivery was a planned c-section

Hospital Arunamari, Klang

15/6/09
7am- check in to hospital, pay RM 3000 deposit by credit card (i remembered daniel's one, i no need to pay up front but it was at another private hospital lah or maybe becoz this time is a planned c-section, so they can estimate the minimum cost oledi)
7.30am- nurse cleaned and got me ready for the c-section...
8.15am- i was sent to the operating theatre but need to wait a while... hubby waited for me outside the operating theatre...... chat with one nurse, her name oso Peggy... hehehe..

the last thing i remember, i was rolled into the operating theatre... can see some of the equipments but a bit blur coz me did not wear specs of contact lense mah

and when i woke up, sister Peggy was calling me
"Peck Yee, Peck Yee, wake up. You have delivered oledi. Everything is ok"

annabelle was born at 8.33am

i was still blur blur and sleepy coz i had general anaesthestic.... and i was sleepy for that one whole day

but i remember see-ing hubby for a while when the nurses was pushing me back to my ward while i asleep on the bed...

my parents, PIL, daniel came to visit me around 10am plus... i realised i miss daniel so much though i just didn't see him for that morning

in conclusion, this time round, no need to wait for dilation, no induction... just straight to deliver by c-section

i am glad that annabelle is born healthily
may she grow up healthily too

3rd kid next? hmmm.... don't think so.... but we will never know....

:)

my family

i know this picture is not perfect in showing you "my family"

it is so difficult to get daniel to sit down quietly and pose for the camera

as for annabelle, she is still in the "sleeping" mode (and occasionally crying mode)

15.06.2009

* a very backdated post*
finally, after 38 weeks, hubby and I welcome our litle girl, annabelle lam ka yan to this world

more of the delivery story in the coming posts...

@ week 38

gynae said bb is predicted to be around 3.6kg

my reaction was SO, IT IS AN ABOVE AVERGAE SIZE BABY THEN

gynae's reply, DEFINITELY NOT A SMALL BABY

so, which menas annabelle and kor kor will have almost the same birth weight?
daniel was born at 4.13kg

counting down to next week monday to welcome annabelle to this world...

my daddy's 55th birthday @ choong foong restaurant, subang new village

* daniel & gong gong *
salted egg crab
* pork ribs *
* taufu, specially ordered for daniel *

* yam cake with gong po chicken *

* vege with mushroom & taufu *

* fried kangkung belacan *

* crispy roast duck *

Y2009 Mothers' Day this is the 2nd year me is a Mother.... last year, daniel was only a month old... and now he is one year old plus.... and annabelle is on the way..... how time flies..... and hubby surprised me with a belated mothers' day cake on may 12th.... though a belated one but it was very thoughtful of him... no fancy dinner, no fancy gift...but a simple & very meaningful cake... thanks dear!

daniel so sweet...

yday nite before sleep, as usual hubby & i will spend time with daniel before he really sleeps...

hubby went downstairs to the hall for a while.... i called out to daniel

me: daniel, come sayang "mei mei" (while i used my hand to pat my tummy)

daniel then crawl to me, put his head on my tummy and sayang sayang "mei mei"

i was surprised. normally i got to force him come near me and kiss my tummy.... but yday nite, he did it so willingly and lovingly... my boy is growing... he will be a "kor kor" soon....

i was so LAM(touched) by his reaction..... too bad hubby was not around to share it with me.....

hopefully both daniel and "mei mei" will grow up together wihtout much fights.... hehehehe

funny dream

Yday I had a funny dream.. wanna blog about it.....

Hubby, me & daniel walked into a bak kut teh shop
He asked me to go walk around and leave him & daniel there
I asked WHY
He just said GO LAH

Then I left the restaurant
This restaurant very funny one
It is like an illegal place where after I leave, they put the door grill locked and cannot see from outside one
All SEALED

Then I suspect something fishy
And guess what?
Hubby meet his EX-GF lah

I of course pissed off lah
Esp with my son with hubby and his EX
I keep on banging on the restaurant door and shouted for them to open the door

Then I dunno how I managed to open up a bit of the door
I shouted YANG YANG, YANG YANG DARLING… DANIEL BOY…..
WHERE ARE YOU? COME MUMMY HERE? (my heart was saying LEAVE YOUR STUPID DADDY WITH THAT WOMAN LAH!!!!)

Then other customers feel pity for me and went to look daniel for me

Suddenly…. My alarm clock ring lor

:)

sad to happen

if you have been reading my blog, you will know that my 5th uncles's wife, auntie tuck is the one who helped to cut daniel's hair since he is a baby....

though we stay in setia alam, we will travel all the way to her small shop at sri sinar just to have her cut daniel's hair... why? she's an expert in her profession... though she is not a professional hairstylist but she was the one most of us in my family turn to when we need a haircut.... and when i mean family, it includes my late grandmother, my immediate family & the latest addition, daniel boy...

but sad to happen, at age of mid-40s, she passed away yesterday... heart attack.... she first felt unwell on saturday morning and then was admitted to the hospital.....

but she passed away just one day after that....

one day we could be walking, talking, laughing and suddenly you feel unwell, and just passed away.....

life is so unpredictable.....

married to my uncle for 5 years.... can still remember their marriage day..... feb 29th '04 (leap year).....

but they "pak thor" for more than 20 years before tied the knot
though she left no children behind but she will always be remembered by us...

too bad i cannot offer her my last respect as i could not attend any funerals at this time... but at least hubby & MIL attended on my behalf........

may you rest in peace, auntie tuck....

week 34

gynae said me gained too much weight of 1.5kg in two weeks time....

first time since the first check-up that he commented this

which means i have been eating A LOT recently

can't deny the fact that it is true....

midnite porridge/ milk for me else cannot sleep-lah

just got to make sure i eat healthily :)

khoo sue ennthis is my cute niece.... she was born march 3rd '09 but this lazy kam moh onli now upload her photo now... sorry baby.....

her name is sue enn.... nice name hor..... may she grow up healthily..... prettily......

@week 30

last week's check-up gynae predict bb no.2 is now around 1.8kg.... as for me, total weight gain is onli 7kg from day 1 of check-up... very little gained hor.... considering my tummy looks big and low... some frens said i look like can give birth anytime from now....

hopefully i can wait till week 38 for c-section.... which means count down 7 more weeks to go before welcoming annabelle.....

on off bought some stuff for her... pacifiers (to me, very important), cloth napkins (still got mamypoko diapers stock at home which daniel no longer can wear), new bb mittens, gloves, few pieces of new clothings.....

and seems like i start to have midnite hunger.... MIL will prepared some porridge for me... else i would need at least a small packet of milk before i can fell back to sleep.... i can still remember when i was pregnant with daniel, my midnite hunger started at week 12.... but with bb no. 2, it onli started at week 30... so much the difference ah.... does it mean bb no.2 is a smaller eater compare to her kor-kor? hmmmm......

daniel's updateweight: 10.2kg

height: 77cm

teeth: four upper teeth + three lower ones

vocabulary: still da da da, yes

loves to: go to park every evening, wear shoes and walk at shopping centre

hates to: sit on potty

able to: walk steadily, put things in and out of a box, wave goodbye, dance a bit by shaking his butt

meals: two meals of porridge a day(or one time cereal , one time porridge) + daytime 7oz of milk + midnite 4oz of milk + fruits/ bread

daniel now and then

both this pics taken on april 8th....

first one was in 2008, the day he was born and the 2nd pic taken recently when he turned 1 yr old... miss his babies days......